Friday, September 26, 2014

The Bible: Fiction vs Nonfiction

Is the Bible fiction or nonfiction? For believers, it's clearly nonfiction, but nonbelievers would call it pure fantasy. The argument has raged for centuries, with no sign of stopping anytime soon, but while theologians duke it out, that leaves bookstore owners and librarians in a quandary: Where should they shelve their Bibles without offending anyone on either side of the debate? 

Mega-retailer Costco found itself in the midst of this debate last year when a pastor visited one if its stores in California and found a copy of the Bible amidst the fiction books. The pastor Tweeted about it, and the story became a national debate. Meanwhile a 7th grade student at a California school brought a copy of the Bible to school when his teacher said students were supposed to read a nonfiction book. When the teacher told him the book was fiction, all hell broke loose. Well, not all hell, exactly. But a bunch of folks had to sit down with the principal, which is essentially the same thing if we remember correctly from our school days.

Regardless of whether the Bible is fact or fiction, it has definitely inspired a great deal of literature of both the fictitious and factual variety. In nonfiction aisles at your favorite bookstore you'll find a variety of titles that help people interpret the Bible, such as The Everyday Life Bible: The Power of God's Word for Everyday Living, how the Bible's teachings can help people live their lives such as What the Bible Says about Love, Marriage, & Sex: The Song of Solomon, and of course inevitably there's The Bible for Dummies.

The Bible is also responsible for spawning a number of fiction titles. Some focus on particular characters from the Bible, including Desired: The Untold Story of Samson and Delilah and My Name is Lazarus. Some stories are based on parables in the Bible, which are fictional stories that Jesus told in order to teach lessons to his followers. One example is The Power of Parable: How Fiction by Jesus Became Fiction about Jesus.

Whether you believe the Bible is fiction or nonfiction, there are plenty of books out there to feed your interest in the book. Happy reading!

Friday, September 19, 2014

How to Talk to Hot Guys: The 9 Secrets of Getting and Keeping the Guy of Your Dreams by Mehow with David Crowther

How to Talk to Hot Guys: The 9 Secrets of Getting and Keeping the Guy of Your Dreams by Mehow with David Crowther

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Story Rating: 3.5 out of 5

Review:

So apparently there's something called the "pickup community," and there are actually people who call themselves "pickup artists." Who knew? Mehow, the author of How to Talk to Hot Guys, is one of that community's best and brightest. It would be interesting to learn whether most members of this community identify as such, and whether they have a formal, organized group, kind of like the National Rifle Association with condoms instead of ammo. But I digress….
How to Talk to Hot Guys is designed to help women attract men. It's for readers who want to talk to hot guys in order to start relationships, as well as those who are looking for a one-night hookup with Mr. Sexy at the end of the bar. The techniques are essentially the same. You zero in on the man of your dreams – or at least a guy who doesn’t physically repel you – and engage in witty banter designed to keep the guy interested and a little off balance. In the process, you have time to determine if this is a guy who you'd like to spend time with. If he is, you can use your sense of humor to turn him into your helpless sex toy. Or the father of your children. Whatever. At that point, it's your call.

It's a great premise for a book. With the right zingers, the most desirable man is putty in your hands. Mehow even offers some suggestions for screening men to make sure you're getting a good one. After all, how many sane women want to embark on a drunken, drama-filled adventure with a non-famous, not-as-attractive version of Charlie Sheen? He also offers tips for women to help them avoid turning off decent guys. After all, how many sane men want to embark on a drunken, drama-filled adventure with a non-famous, not-as-attractive version of Lindsey Lohan?

This book has some flaws, though. First off, the conversation scenarios demand comedic timing and wit that most people don't have access to on the spur of the moment. Sure, if you're writing a book and you have months to think up clever come-backs, it looks easy. It probably wouldn't come as easily during real life conversations. Also, there are all sorts of rules and situations that were impossible to keep straight. Like when's the right time for "tease stacking" versus "sass" versus "harsh implied frames"? And what are "calibration" and "emotional value" again?
Finally, some of the recommended techniques seemed like they wouldn't attract a man so much as make him think you're either out of your mind or a total bitch. For instance, if a guy you've just met tells you, "I stopped playing football after college," a recommended response is, "Is that when you grew a vagina?" Now, that might be a good response for someone you already know fairly well, but walking up to a stranger in a bar and saying that might instead elicit a WTF? response from a lot of guys. Of course, if a man is put off when you talk about his late-onset vagina, then perhaps it's better to know that upfront before wasting too much time on him.

Reviewed by Peter

Saturday, September 13, 2014

Review: Sprouted Soul: Whole Souled Poems by Doobie

Sprouted Soul: Whole Souled Poems by Doobie 



Review:

Sprouted Soul Whole – Loved Poems by Doobie is a collection of rather short poems that describe the soul that learns to hurt and love over and over again. These poems range in descriptions from the use of sight all the way through various forms of weather. There is not a whole lot of description that can be given without giving away the poems.

Doobie provides very short poems that feel rather incomplete. These poems seem to just give a glimpse into the writer’s soul and what they feel when writing the poem. The best poetry comes from the heart and when a poet allows that emotion to shine so does the poem that they have written. Many of these feel as if the writer has forced the words to come forth making the poems lack the impact that the writer wants to convey. However, with all of that said it is obvious that Doobie has talent that as they write will come through so keep your eye on this poet. This particular set of poems receives a 3 out of 5 score simply because of the budding talent that is shown in these poems.

Reviewed by Unrequited Spirit

Saturday, September 6, 2014

Review: All You Need Is Less by Madeline Somerville

All You Need is Less: The Eco-Friendly Guide to Guilt-Free Green Living and Stress-Free Simplicity by Madeleine Somerville

Link to buy All You Need Is Less: The Eco-friendly Guide to Guilt-Free Green Living and Stress-Free Simplicity

Rating: 4 out of 5

At the beginning of Madeleine Somerville's All You Need is Less: The Eco-Friendly Guide to Guilt-Free Green Living and Stress-Free Simplicity, the author says that there should be more emphasis on the "reduce" segment of the environmentalists' "Reduce, Reuse, Recycle" war cry. To that end, she focuses on strategies designed to help people acquire and use less stuff. Some of those strategies are more realistic and practical than others.

Everything lands on Somerville's chopping block, from personal care items, to home cleaning supplies, to clothes driers. The idea is that all the everyday products we purchase at the grocery store can be replaced with less expensive, more environmentally friendly alternatives. For instance, you can shampoo your hair with baking soda, shave with coconut oil, clean your home with vinegar, and hang your laundry on a clothesline outside to dry.

It almost goes without saying that Somerville is an advocate for rain barrels, backyard gardening with heirloom seeds, and cloth diapers, but she goes a step further with a chapter about how to improve your relationships and "green" your pets. It's all written in a friendly, easy-to-read style that usually tries to avoid inflicting crushing guilt trips on readers. 

A few things particularly stood out about this book:

1) The author is deeply infatuated with vinegar. She uses it for everything from first aid to housecleaning to hair conditioner. She admits that after using apple cider vinegar as conditioner, her hair might smell a little vinegary if it gets wet and you stick your nose in it, but she believes it's a small price to pay for not having to buy actual hair conditioner that's full of chemicals.

2) Some of the author's ideas are excellent and entirely possible for some people. Drying clothes on a line outside, for example, would work fine during dry, warm weather for people who have backyards with clotheslines. People living in apartments and/or in Minnesota in January are still going to need a drier. Plus there are plenty that are beyond the realm of how much trouble the average person will go to. For instance, traditional leg waxing is out. Instead, you're supposed to mix up a concoction of hot, sticky sugar and reusable cloth strips. Uh, no.

3) This book isn't just about using less stuff – it offers a new lifestyle. A reader can pick and choose which specific techniques work for him/her, but an environmental zealot can use the book to transform every aspect of his/her life.

As thorough and interesting and potentially useful as this book it, it did have a fundamental flaw. Many of the tips and techniques don't actually result in using less stuff; they just change which stuff you're using. For instance, let's say you want to use a skin moisturizer. Somerville says that instead of buying moisturizer which is specifically for that purpose, you should use coconut oil. And if you've got a cat, you shouldn't buy regular cat litter, but instead either buy the more expensive natural kind or make your own using shredded newspaper that you wet then mush together then dry in a process that takes 1-2 days.

Basically, you're not reducing anything. You're still buying and using stuff. You're just using stuff that's not as good as the stuff that you used to use. It's not necessarily even cheaper. Take coconut oil, for example. It's expensive and it comes in jars that you have to throw away, just like the skin lotion that it's supposed to be replacing. So why bother? I've tried to use coconut oil as a skin moisturizer. It's greasy and it gets oily spots on my clothes. The author advises readers to avoid that problem by toweling themselves off after using it, but that adds another step to my post-shower routine. And I smell like coconut, which isn't bad exactly, but it's not as nice as the fragrance in my skin lotion. So, to recap, people are supposed to stop buying expensive skin lotion which moisturizes their skin and smells nice. Instead they should buy expensive coconut oil, which moisturizes skin but leaves a greasy residue that needs to be removed and smells like coconuts. What exactly is being saved here? Especially if the skin lotion you already use is a natural kind that doesn't contain parabens or test on animals.


Overall, All You Need Is Less contains a lot of excellent tips. It's helpful to keep it in perspective, though, and remember that every little bit you do will help the planet. You don't have to follow all these guidelines to make your life a little greener. Realistically, there are a finite number of hours in the day to grow your own food, make your own baby wipes, and give your partner deep tissue massages instead of buying him/her anniversary gifts. And as for me, life's too short to have hair that smells like vinegar.

Reviewed by Peter

Thursday, August 28, 2014

Review: Pretty Little Killers by Daleen Berry and Geoffry C. Fuller

Pretty Little Killers by Daleen Berry and Geoffry C. Fuller

Link to buy Pretty Little Killers: The Truth Behind the Savage Murder of Skylar Neese

Story Rating: 4.5 out of 5

Review:

This book tells a tale of a horrific murder and teaches the lesson to trust no one. If this story was presented in a movie many people would say "Come on, are you kidding me?" But this very aspect is what makes this book a page turner. Can these girl killers and their victim be for real?

What sets this story apart is the social media angle. There have been murders committed in the past where someone sends an email to another about the crime. Some killers have kept written diaries describing all the gruesome details. But in this instance all the tweets, texts, and calls make this even more interesting. Following the social media you can see a diary as the murder was planned, executed, and covered up. And after reading this book you have to wonder what were these girls thinking.

In my opinion they absolutely would have gotten caught at some point. The electronic forensic trail was leading right towards them without anyone confessing. The murder takes place on July 6, 2012 and by February 2013 both girls had been sentenced. Most murder cases don't have guilty pleas and case closure this fast unless there is overwhelming evidence. In many cases that are solved the killer just can't keep their mouth shut. In this case the killers just couldn't stay off of social media.

Reviewed by Joseph

Friday, August 22, 2014

Review: What Do You Want To Create Today: Build The Life You Want At Work by Dr. Bob Tobin

What Do You Want To Create Today: Build The Life You Want At Work by Dr. Bob Tobin

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Story Rating: 3.5 out of 5

Review:

It took some time to figure out exactly what this book is attempting to do. On the surface, it reads like a collection of stories from Dr. Tobin's own work experiences. It was unclear how those anecdotes could offer much help to others. But because I'm reviewing the book, I had to dive deeper to try and decipher the central unifying theme among those stories. And, pleasantly enough, there is one.

Part of what threw me off and caused some confusion about the purpose of this book was the title. "What Do You Want To Create Today?" suggests entrepreneurship and creating a new business or pursuing some artistic career path. But it's not. It's primarily about taking the job you've already got and making small changes to turn it into the job you want where you can start loving your work.

Some of the changes suggested in the book are more about re-working your own attitude than any physical shift. For instance, the chapter "Tough is Good" focuses on the idea that sometimes the hardest projects are the most rewarding. People who are bored by the same old, same old are more likely to make mistakes, but if you're mentally engaged, your work is better.

Many of the ideas and suggestions here are pretty basic when you think about them, but taking the time to sit down and think about them is the advantage of having a book in your hands. The notion behind "Get rid of the jerks" is simple enough, but how do you get jerks out of your cubicle when you don't have the power to fire them? Some suggestions are offered, including strategies the author has personally had success with.

One downside of the book has already been mentioned. Its title might be misleading and might cause some readers to pick it up in search of entrepreneurial advice. Another downside is that it's unclear whether the average person's work life will be vastly improved by implementing these suggestions. Yes, it's nice to think that if you ignore a jerk, he'll go away, but does he always? In my experience, that depends on the jerk. And the idea that following this book's simple suggestions – for instance how you should focus on dreams instead of spinning your wheels putting together shorter-term goals – seems overly simplistic. It's also got a very heavy focus on the author's personal experience, which might or might not translate into anyone else's work situation.

Overall, this is a decent career-centered book that has some nuggets of good advice to offer people who want to improve their work lives. Before quitting your current job in disgust, it might help to pick up a copy and see if you can make some changes that will make your situation more palatable, or even enjoyable. And if those don't work, there's still time to quit that time-wasting crummy job tomorrow.


Reviewed by Peter

Monday, August 18, 2014

Review: Andy Kaufman: The Truth, Finally by Bob Zmuda and Lynne Margulies

Andy Kaufman, The Truth, Finally by Bob Zmuda and Lynne Margulies

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Story Rating: 4 out of 5

Review:

This book starts with death and ends with the possibility of a staged resurrection. In the chapters in between the story told lays the groundwork for the Second Coming of Andy Kaufman. Some of the explanations of why Kaufman would do something as faking his death for thirty years seen plausible due to Kaufman's oddness and idiosyncrasies. But other stories seem to take the premise over the top and are not so believable. Three quarters of the book present an interesting read into the mind of Kaufman. These parts are truly enjoyable. Lining up the dots seems to be the thrust of how Kaufman pulled off this stunt.

What is interesting is that as I read the book promoting its' theories, the more I remembered the movie 'Eddie and the Cruisers". Kaufman died in 1984 and the above mentioned movie came out in 1983. The rock star has been supposedly dead for twenty years and indeed at the end of the movie Eddie lives. Maybe Andy Kaufman had seen this movie and thought to himself "wait! Wait! You're stealing my idea!" So maybe if we wait a little bit longer Andy will return. We've already been waiting thirty years.

Reviewed by Joseph

Saturday, August 9, 2014

And Tango Makes Three gets banned

It's about time someone took a stand against gay penguins. Those characters who march around on the bottom of the world in their rainbow-colored tuxedos need to be knocked down a peg. And Singapore is just the country to do it. 

According to a BBC News story, the Singapore Library Board has banned a children's book that tells the true story of a pair of male penguins at the Central Park Zoo who team up to raise a penguin chick. Not only did the Library Board ban the book, but they ordered all existing copies to be destroyed. Good idea. You can't let a book like that accidentally fall into the public's hands. This is clearly a shocking story that flies in the face of traditional penguin family values.
The Board's action isn't universally popular, and there are petition drives to have the decision reversed. The gay penguin lobby seems pretty well-organized in Singapore. Oh, and the lobby for all humans who want the government to stay out of their bedrooms is on the case, too. You see, in Singapore, gay sex is still illegal, and there's a push for that law to be overturned.
It's stories like this that make the right to free expression and freedom from censorship so valuable. Sure, some people are offended by the gay rights movement. Sure, some people are offended by the gay penguin book. It's called And Tango Makes Three, by the way, if you want to buy it to read or buy it to cluck your tongue at the perverted exploits of homosexual waterfowl. But the beauty of freedom is that it's up to you to decide what literature or movies or music you want to be exposed to. So take advantage of your freedom and pick up a book that's been banned in at least one country. Then savor the thrill of being a rebel.